Thursday, August 29, 2013

Week 38: aren't you done yet?



This week Marco and I finished our 4 week preparation classes, had a doctor's appointment and I attended the Grandparent's class with my mom. Our 39 week appointment is on Wednesday - we're praying for progress progress progress!!!
Week 8 vs. Week 38! Time to make your grand entrance Zoe! :)


How far along: 38 weeks 5 days (Watermelon: 19-22in, 7lbs) Considered "full term" but still have about 1 week until my due date.

Symptoms: restless sleep every night, exhausted in the morning but I've found that going to bed a little later allows me to sleep until my alarm goes off without tossing and turning for hours. Bottom of feet hurt like I've been on them all day. Ligament pains when I roll or turn weird. Bleeding/swollen gums, very itchy, swollen feet and having to urinate every 15-20 minutes. Very uncomfortable!!!

Aversions: none

Cravings: still milk!!!
 
Wedding Rings: off
 
Belly button: out
 
Stretch marks: some on lower belly under belly button

Excited for: going into labor and holding Zoe.
 
Fears: that I won't know when it's time to go to the hospital vs. just random contractions/false labor. And still delivery and recovery.
 
Mood: Calm but uncomfortable. Just want to sleep all the time.
 
Missing: being pain free.
 
Movement: Movement is less obvious but still consistent. She doesn't have much room now so it's not so much jabs and kicks as just small movements, feet repositioning etc. She's probably just as done as I am.
 
Exercise: none. Starting Sept 1!
 
What the Dr says: Blood pressure is still good. Zoe's heart beat is nice and strong. 60% effaced, between 1 & 2cm dilated, station -1. She's staying head down.
 
Pre-labor signs: Braxton Hicks or false labor contractions consistently yesterday. Not painful at all and with no pattern but just a tightening of the uterus. Mucus plug is out. Increase in hormones and Zoe is obviously lower.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Our Maternity Photo Shoot

Thank you again to kelseysteindler.blogspot.com for our beautiful photos. We can't wait to meet our little one and eventually be able to share these great memories with her :)























Friday, August 23, 2013

Week 37: nesting in full affect

 
This week has been pretty uneventful with the exception of my company officially transitioning over to SanDisk yesterday. I had to drive over 2 hours in traffic to the Longmont office for all day meetings and paperwork. It wasn't as bad as it sounds though with a catered breakfast and lunch and the team seems really nice and welcoming. They gave us Swiss Army laptop bags, coffee mug and spiral bound notebook as well - the swag was appreciated!
 
 
 
I also received my free breastpump thanks to Obamacare as well as an "Itzbeen" timer/alarm. I need to clean the parts and read the instruction manual for the breastpump but it seems fairly easy/idiot proof (especially for those 3am feedings).

(clockwise from top left: changing station in our bedroom, sitting area in our bedroom with vintage cradle, recliner chair and elephant pattern boppy, my new Medela duel electric breastpump, a bouncer and gym for Zoe in our living room)
 
Finally we have finished packing our hospital bags for Marco, Zoe and myself. We also had Babies R Us inspect our car seat for proper installation. Interestingly only about 10% of car seats are installed properly and we were proud to be within that percentage.
 

We are also pretty much done with the nursery. We are still looking for a glider nursing chair to complete the room but it's not an urgent need at this time. I also took this week to wash a lot of her clothes. Since we don't know her size I decided not to wash and take the tags off everything until after she arrives. Here are some photos of the finished product:


Don't worry! The stuffed animals and blanket will be removed while Zoe is in the crib for safety reasons.

I need to put the wallpaper on the back of the changing table but it's pretty much done!
 
So thankful for all the things we received at our shower. That dresser is completely full of clothes thanks to everyone who attended. :)

 
How far along: 37 weeks 6 days (Watermelon: 19-22in, 6.5 lbs) Considered "full term" but still have about 2 weeks until my due date.

Symptoms: restless sleep every night, exhausted in the morning (last night I woke up around 2am and couldn't go back to sleep until 5:30am. Then up at 8:30am.) Bottom of feet hurt like I've been on them all day. Ligament pains when I roll or turn weird. Bleeding/swollen gums, swollen feet and having to urinate every 15-20 minutes. Very uncomfortable!!!

Aversions: none

Cravings: still milk
 
Wedding Rings: off
 
Belly button: out
 
Stretch marks: sadly yes. So much for it being hereditary. LIES!! They are very itchy lately too. I just keep putting lotion on them and hoping they fade after Zoe is here. Trying not to let it bother me too much.

Excited for: Maternity leave and holding Zoe for the first time! Also seeing how the dogs react to her :)
 
Fears: that I won't know when it's time to go to the hospital vs. just random contractions/false labor. And still delivery and recovery.
 
Mood: Annoyed at everything and everyone. haha
 
Missing: not being pregnant. It's pretty normal to feel this way at this stage but including the miscarriage I've been pregnant going on a year now. I'm just tired and feeling fat (along with all the side affects of carrying around the extra weight for a 5'2" frame). haha
 
Movement: She moves consistently still but less than previous weeks since she doesn't have too much room left. I can definitely tell she's lower because her feet typically don't kick my ribs anymore.
 
Exercise: sadly none this week. Once September 1st hits we will be walking daily since we want a September baby haha!
 
What the Dr says: Blood pressure is still good. Zoe's heart beat is nice and strong. 60% effaced, 1cm dilated, station -1. She's staying head down.
 
Pre-labor signs: Braxton Hicks or false labor contractions consistently yesterday. Not painful at all and with no pattern but just a tightening of the uterus. Once I got home and drank water and milk they eased up.


Our bassinet (thanks to Jen and Rich) and hand-crocheted chevron patterened blanket (thanks to John's mom) for Zoe next to our bed. This is where she will sleep until she's sleeping through the night.
 
Her bath set up. Thankfully our bathtub is large enough for Marco and I to both sit in there with her. Our sinks are a little too small for this baby bath.
 

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Week 36: making progress

Just a quick update!

I had my breastfeeding class on Saturday. I learned a lot and am feeling more confident about the process. Doctor's appointments are now once a week until labor. On Monday I went in and all is well. I actually have some pre-labor progress (see "what the Dr. said" section).

Tuesday Marco and I had our second of four preparation classes. Lots of useful information here as well and we so appreciate how much they push for the husband to be a supportive coach and an active participant. Plus the instructor makes us laugh :)

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How far along: 36 weeks 5 days (Watermelon: 19-22in, 6.5 lbs) 2 days away from being considered full term. I can now safely deliver the baby at any time!

Symptoms: restless sleep every night, exhausted in the morning (last night I woke up at 3am and couldn't go back to sleep until 6am. Then up at 8:30am.) Bottom of feet hurt like I've been on them all day. Ligament pains when I roll or turn weird. Bleeding/swollen gums, colastrum leaking daily, swollen feet and having to urinate every 15-20 minutes.

Aversions: none

Cravings: caffeine (soda, coffee or chocolate) and sugar!!

Wedding Rings: off

Belly button: out

Stretch marks: some yes. They appear to be under the skin as they are not indented/I can't feel them when I run my fingers across my belly.

Excited for: Maternity leave and holding Zoe for the first time!

Fears: delivery and recovery

Mood: anxious but calm. Being tired makes me not want to think, talk or do anything that elevates my heart rate haha

Missing: feeling comfortable and being able to sit however I want.

Movement: still constant. Last night she was hiccuping for a good 15-20 minutes. She pushes against the wall of my uterus in such a way that it makes the top of my belly look flat like I table. Pretty funny.

Exercise: sadly none this week.

What the Dr says: Blood pressure is still good. Zoe's heart beat is nice and strong. I gained 1 pound in 2 weeks. 50% effaced, 1cm dilated, station -1. She's head down as well. Dr would be surprised if I went into labor after the due date. We went over the birth plan and she suggested I no longer commute to work as it's 2 hours away from the hospital. She gave me a note to give to my boss.

Pre-labor signs: Experience light contractions from time to time, she's dropped into place so I'm able to breath better but she's now pushing constantly on my bladder. 

Friday, August 9, 2013

Maternity Photo Shoot: Sneak Peek

Here a just a few pictures we were sent over of our little bump. We can't wait to get all of them back!! We love what Kelsey Steindler can do (she did our wedding photos as well)! Please check her out at http://kelseysteindler.blogspot.com/



Thursday, August 8, 2013

Week 35: preparation is key

Marco took his daddy boot camp class and said he learned a lot about caring for me and the baby, emotionally and physically. He also got the chance to  hear from other soon-to-be dads and their experiences. He came home feeling very lucky that I am not as emotional or selfish as others and grateful that I've been including him in everything.

We had our first prep class (out of 4) and got to experience watching a DVD with a drug-free vaginal birth. OMG - give me the epidural!! haha. Future classes will include a video on C-section delivery and epidural vaginal delivery. We received a lot of good information that helped me to feel a little better about the process. With 11 other couples in the group all experiencing the same concerns is reassuring for me as well. We are the furthest along out of all the couples so it's kind of fun knowing I've gone through most of the pregnancy before others, or maybe that's scarier that I'll be delivering first. :/

Other than that things have been pretty calm around the house. Little by little I'm beginning to wash clothing, bedding etc. It seems like we have plenty of time but really only about 4 weeks left. SO Crazy!!!

Here are some pics I forgot to post from our Cali trip!

Zoe pushing on the right side making my stomach lopsided. She favors this side and does this often. It feels like it's her whole back and butt.

Sneak Peek of our Maternity Photo Shoot with Kelsey Steindler Photography. We chose several spots around downtown Laguna Beach

Another Sneak Peek (both were taken with my cell phone)

We were so excited to enjoy the Orange County Fair with Tricia McCurry, Tricia Mae and Marco. We thought that getting on the foot massage would be a good idea for my swollen feet. We found this was actually a great idea but I didn't want to do it alone. Tricia got on and could not stop hysterically laughing. It was a great memory and I'm sl glad I captured it! :) 

How far along: 35 weeks 5 days (Large cantaloupe: 19-22in, 6 lbs)

Symptoms: restless sleep every night, exhausted in the morning. Bottom of feet hurt like I've been on them all day. Ligament pains when I roll or turn weird. Pressure near ribs/lungs. Bleeding/swollen gums, colastrum leaking daily, shortness of breath, easily irritable and having to urinate every 20-30 minutes.

Aversions: none

Cravings: milk, especially chocolate milk and anything sweet. Yesterday, randomly, I decided to make banana pudding with vanilla wafers. I also saw a picture of a quesadilla and immediately craved one. Marco made me one for lunch :)
 
Wedding Rings: off (I miss them)
Belly button: out
 
Stretch marks: I see what look like faint small stretch marks under my belly button but they aren't indented like I usually see (like typical scars). I hope they will be faint or non-existant after delivery. Until then I'm putting the cocoa butter on 3 times a day and they don't seem to be getting any worse.
Sleep: horrible. Waking up often throughout the night and it's a very light sleep. I can't seem to find a comfortable position for long. I do have dreams every so often that always have to do with pregnancy. Nothing scary or concerning.

Excited for: Maternity leave and holding Zoe for the first time!

Fears: labor, delivery and recovery. :)
Mood: anxious. A little irritable this week but nothing I can't manage. Still excited for what's to come.
Missing: pre-preggers body, sleeping through the night and normal clothes.
 
Movement: still constant. I love feeling her but sometimes the movements are a bit uncomfortable. All movement is a good thing though according to my doctor so keep it coming little one!
 
Exercise: went to the pool on Sunday and was able to swim a little and doing some stretching. Hoping to go to the pool again this weekend.
 
Pre-labor signs: I wouldn't say I'm full on "nesting" but I have been doing more cleaning, laundry and prepping the baby's room than normal. I don't know if it's just an increase in energy, bordom or nesting. None the less I'm getting things done slowly but surely. With having to go to the restroom constantly it's a good sign she's moving lower and getting into position. I think I've been experiencing more Braxton Hicks (practice contractions) but it could also just be her body pushing up against my stomach.

Watching the sun rise on our way back from Cali. I think this was in Utah
 I loved the clouds and colors
 
Back in Colorado about 2 hours outside of home

 

Monday, August 5, 2013

Week 34: back in the swing of things

I've been slacking on posts but part of it is because there's not really anything new to report. Marco and I have settled back into Colorado life and are putting the final touches on the nursery. We unpacked the car-full of goodies we took home from Cali and have been overwhelmed but appreciative of all the loot we were so blessed with. With the gift cards we were able to get a monitor, a mobile gym, a bouncer and a cloth diaper. :)
 
We had our baby safe class and learned a ton about infant CPR, installing the car seat (which we've already done) and things to be alert to. It was very informative and we're so glad we took it. Marco has his Daddy Boot Camp class next week and we begin our 4-week preparation (lamaze) classes as well.
 
How far along: 34 weeks 6 day (Honeydew melon 19-22 inches, 5.5lbs)

Symptoms: The Edema has somewhat subsided. I can still feel a little bit of swelling but nothing to write home about. The bottoms of my feet are always sore in the mornings. Waking up throughout the night whether it's just to adjust or go to the bathroom. Either way I'm uncomfortable and feeling the ligament pains often (it's normal - just your uterus expanding).

Dr says: 34 week appointment went well. heartbeat is between 130-150 depending on what she's doing. Dr says this is a great sign that the brain is developing properly. Keep an eye on the edema but other than that all is well. We didn't have time to go through the birth plan as Dr had to go delivery a baby but we will discuss at 36 weeks.

Aversions: none

Cravings: none really. Still enjoy Milk and anything with sugar!

Wedding Rings: off

Belly button: out

Stretch marks: none
 
Sleep: Still not sleeping through the night. This will continue until labor no doubt (and once baby arrives). I try to sneak in naps throughout the day when needed.
 
Excited for: maternity leave and finally getting to hold our little Zoe.

Fears: still the labor and delivery scares me as well as the recovery process. Praying that everything goes naturally and smoothly.
Mood: relaxed and calm. Enjoying these last few weeks.
Missing: my shoe collection. I really hope I'm able to fit back into them after pregnancy.

Movement: all the time. some big and some small movements all throughout the day until about 11pm.

Exercise: none this week. Been resting my feet. Hopefully next week.